Next to being your child’s teacher, being his coach can be a difficult situation for all involved. You want to be active in their life, but do not want to smother them or impede their fun in any way. Here are a few rules to keep in mind if you have stepped up to the plate to coach your kid’s team.
Rule 1: Don’t give your child special treatment. – When kids are with their peers, the last thing they want is often to be singled out and treated differently. Don’t give them special assignments or coveted positions on the team. No one—not the other kids, your kid, or you—will find that enjoyable in the end.
Rule 2: Don’t ignore your child. – While it is important not to give special treatment to your kids when you are coaching their team, be sure not to go too far to the other extreme and neglect to give them any attention at all. No child wants absolutely no attention from their parents at all.
Rule 3: Treat your kid as one of the team while on the field. – The best balance to strike between giving your child special treatment and ignoring them entirely is to merely treat them as you would any teammate. Push them to their physical best, but also know when they need support instead of a push.
Rule 4: Treat your kid as your child the second you step off the field. – Once you have stepped off the field for the day, be sure to compliment your child’s effort. You may be his coach, but you are also his parent, and a kid always likes to hear that her parent is proud of her.
Sports can be an excellent way for you and your children to exercise and have fun together, so don’t be afraid to step up to plate and coach.










